Yesterday in one of my classes the topic of "loving thy neighbor as thyself" was addressed. There are many references in the Bible about loving your neighbor as yourself.
Galatians 5:13-15 says: "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another."
Here in America we have an incredible freedom, but we use it to satisfy our selfish lusts. We are more wealthy than 80 - 90% of the world, but we only have eyes for ourselves and our interests. We must be careful to "not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another."
I was thinking the other day, what does loving my neighbor as myself actually mean? I buy coffee for myself, I have "me time," I provide what I consider basic necessities for myself. If I truly loved my neighbor as I love myself, would I not do the same from him? Does loving my neighbor mean I should buy coffee for him? Maybe, but I'm thinking that it rather means that our time should be spent honoring other people. If I put myself in someone else's shoes and tried to see the world as they might see it, I can more easily guess at what I might like if I were them. If I were the homeless person standing in the cold at the stoplight asking for a handout, yes, I would like money. But I would also like someone to talk to me. To wave or smile at me. I would bet that standing at a stoplight being judged by every car that drives past is a lonely place to be. If I were a student from another country living in America to learn English, I would want people to reach out to me, to help me to learn their language. I would like to make new friends and be able to bring back stories to my family of the hospitality that was shown to me while I was here.
These are just two ideas, but I would venture to guess that you get the gist of my thoughts. Sometimes loving your neighbor seems pretty easy, sometimes it is costly. Time is extremely valuable, and sacrificing it for someone else --for a complete stranger-- may not make to most sense in your world. In God's eyes, though, sacrificing your time for someone else may be one of the most loving things that you can do. Stepping away from the assignments that a due and the deadlines that are approaching, getting a paper turned in on time or an extra hour of overtime put in does not hold the lasting value that comes when you invest in someone else's life.
Luke 10:27 says: "And he answered, 'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.'"
Just a little earlier in the same chapter, verse two: "And he said to them, 'The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.'"
Not enough people are loving their neighbor as themselves. For those of us who strive to follow Jesus' teaching, we should pray for God to send our more laborers into to harvest, to open the eyes of blind people and believers. People want to be loved, they are searching for love. Many people are searching for it in the wrong place. They need people with the Truth to speak into their lives so that they might live for the Truth. The Truth sets us free, but those not in the Truth are in bondage to lies. Let us put aside our earthly pleasures and pursuits and offer the Truth to our brothers and sisters that they may be set free.
Let us not only pray for more laborers, but let us be the answer to our own prayers. A. W. Tozer once said, "We hear a Christian assure someone that he will 'pray over' his problem, knowing full well that he intends to use prayer as a substitute for service. It is much easier to pray that a poor friend's needs may be supplied than to supply them." Let this not be true in our lives. Never be unwilling to supply the answer to your own prayer for your brother (neighbor).
Much more could be discussed with this idea, but I'll end my post here. Let this be a springboard for your own thoughts and ponderings. I'll end with a quote:
"Almost the whole world is asleep. Everybody you know, everybody you talk to. Only a few people are awake. And they live in a state of constant, total amazement." --Anonymous